April 4, 2005

Retrospection of first 21 years of my life... Part II

Contd. from Part I ...

Lovelife was never kickstarted though I kept applying oil to the wearyteary parts of love engine. Though I took a couple of valiant efforts, and a couple of generous invitation fell on my side but I never got my mind into it. This is one area where I cannot afford to compromise. The wait may be painstaking but the reward is worth its value.As I have already stated somewhere that love is a monotonically decreasing function of time, so longer you wait, dimmer your chances are!! So the idea is simple, girls are welcome!

Academics, I could have scored a lot more than what I've got provided I had studied. But with my restless mind, I just cannot concentrate on one thing.But still I am deeply satisfied with my performance throughout my life.I have lived my life in shambles, totally disorganized in a state of anarchy and chaos. I keep my room unclean( kviv, dont comment) and there's no schedule in my life. I have heard of something called time management but never applied. Needless to say, I would like to amend this thing.

What do I expect from next 21 years of my life, assuming I'm alive and sane to celebrate my 42nd birthday?
* Do not repeat the mistakes that I have committed, half the problems will go away.
* Speak when necessary.It's good to value your words, but dumbness is not an invaluable trait.
* Dare to take risks, and dare to lose. But learn by experience.
* Don't live a sedentary life.
* Many more, time will come, not everything can be planned.

Retrospections are painstaking. You should never do that.

18 comments:

Naresh said...

Kudos dear friend! One of the finest pieces I read. Happy Birthday agn and I guess u r da best the way u r! u r cool, chuchu!

Amod said...

Thanx Naresh, but I guess there's always scope for further improvement.... sky's the limit.

| Ep/ID | said...

Happpppppy Birthday!!!! So many birthdays this time around i think!!! :) nevertheless, happy birthday again. :)

Smartalec said...

abt that love life thing... i'll tell u where u goofed up! u should try ur hand at shorter gals for a change:P!
and yeah! like naresh put it, u r ok just as u r, mousy;)!

Amod said...

well smartalec, Its not the height which matters, its how high you can get that matters... anyways u r naive!

ravishing nymph said...

Smartalec and naive??? RIGHT.. I think you shud take that back amod.. i hope you had rocking B"DAY PARTY.. i wasnt even invited.. gosh .. How rude.. haha.. its not ur b'day anymore so i can be meannn.. haha.. ehahaha.. You are perfect baby.. luved PARTI and PART II... have a lab report now.. gotta run :D.. cheeriosss.. have great 21st year of ur life..

Vivek Pabari said...

Hey, except for the table, the room isn't that unclean after all.

Btw, ur popularity in the batch indeed has a reason: you are respectable.

And abt fair sex, I always thought u were quite comfortable befriending them, even some very unknown ones! Am I right?

Smartalec said...

thanx for your support, isha ;)! *blushes*
and don't worry! we made sure mousy had a grand start to his b'day:D!

Bhavesh said...

happy belated budday once again.
i cudnt really muster the courage 2 kick u . am sure tht u wont b so generous :(
can v hv a settlement?

ravishing nymph said...

bhavesh .. ur an IT student not a commerce student shame on u to try and do business.. of b'day bumps.. lol.. but i guess some gujju syndromes are quite apparent in all of u ..lol..

Smartalec said...

hey! bhavesh is d only gujju here!
born in ahmedabad; brought-up in pune if i ain't wrong :D!
what say, amod?!

Bhavesh said...

@steve:u r rite steve, n u dont hv 2 ask amod 4 every little thing. :P

@ravishing nymph : bein able 2 do business is very imp in IT field, coz there's little that is worth sellin. n as u rightly guessed, gujju hormones r doin their work. u hvnt had ny bumps i guess. its always better 2 hv some trade negotiations be4hand.

amod said...

@steve n bhavesh - Born in Ahmedabad, brought up in Pune :-)

@nymph- whats the gujju syndrome in me?

ravishing nymph said...

lol... i donno.. i just know that gujjus n business mix well.. so i was generalising when i said that u guys are doing commerce.. i seriously didnt know bhavesh was gujju .. dude.. :-s

Bhavesh said...

I AM NOT A GUJJU
Born in Amdavad, brought up in Pune!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
does that mean i am a "born gujju"? omg...

amod said...

@bhavesh-yes, and being gujju is no sin...

Bhavesh said...

i know, i m proud of my heritage... i hv got gr8 gujju friends n gujjus happen 2 b the ppl i adore most...i shud b usin more smileys,as u said...

Anonymous said...

Somehow school friends , acquaintances infact even foes carve a niche for themselves in my heart!!
My school life was complete opposite to yours. It was all about friends , freaking out , sleepovers - after school and rehearsals , events et al during school hours. I was forever on official bunk [ which means you get the attendance coz u r representing school sumwhere or are working fr sum school event despite the fact you dont attend classes]
I had dis craze fr the top girl / first in class badges hence did pull off acads quite well :P thanks to my frens who attended classes and passed on their notes to me :)

I shud write a separate blog on my school days rather than writing one here ;)

As of love life - try and try till you find the right match :D

and that is indeed sum hi funda retrospection...21 does seem to be the coming of age year!

BTW, now guys are marriageable at 18 even ;-)